Friday, March 20, 2015

Gut Issues

March 20, 2015  Upset Tummy

Last night I was laying in bed wide awake with horrible stomach pain…not sure if im just getting old and with age my body forgot how to digest?  Seems like lately I’ve been having gut issues.

While I lay there awake I kept wondering if one of my children was going to have the same feeling and come into my room complaining their tummys hurt too.  Had I served food that had gone bad, did I pick up a germ at walmart, did I forget to wash my hands after changing Ethans diaper?  All these thoughts kept rushing through my mind. 

No one other than myself seemed to feel sick.  I couldn’t pin point anything I had done wrong.  I somehow fell sick.

In my walk with the Lord I have times when I am feeling great, motivated, in touch, spiritually healthy, and then there are other times when I feel distant, like I’m at a loss of even how to approach a quiet time with the Lord.  What did I do to put me in either position?  What did I do to gain these times of Spiritual Highs and Spiritual Lows?

Nothing.  I didn’t do anything. 

What gains my “Spiritual High” is by carving out time to be with the Lord.  When I go on about my day and don’t make a time I find my self at a “Low”  Then when in that Low I need a gut check.  I may not physically have a tummy ach but my heart needs some healing, some rest some fill up on good things from my maker.  I get low much like I car runs low on gas…I may be going but eventually I’ll run out of gas and I can only go so far on fumes. 

Lord refresh today, heal my gut, fill me with you, Renew my mind, transform my soul, bring me to a finial change that I may never have a low.


Romans 12 Therefore, I urge you brothers in view of Gods mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God this is your spiritual act of worship.  Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is His good, pleasing and perfect will.

Easter Party Ideas

Easter Ideas-

Every year since Mason was 2, I have hosted an Easter Party for some of my friends and their little kids.  We love to celebrate Easter and take time to reflect on the time of year that is really most important for Christians.  I love to research and find ways that I can imprint Gods story into the hearts and minds of our boys.  Here are some things I’ve uncovered and hope to use.

Today we made Salt Dough ornaments, they are baking now.  We started with the Birth of Jesus, made some of his miracles…Micah said some of his favorite ones are when Jesus turned the water to wine, when He healed a blind man, when he used a boys lunch to feed 5,000 people and when he calmed a big storm…so those are the ones we made…we then made one to represent palm Sunday, good Friday and then one with clouds and a dove to remind us that Jesus is preparing a place for us and he has given us his holy spirit to GO into all the world and make disciples.

We made toilet paper roll characters to tell the story with. (like our nativity set at Christmas time)

I printed off some decorations, similar to the ones found in the resurrection eggs we made to hang from the fire place as decorations.

Here’s a collection of ideas for our Easter Party this year.

Use a rabbit picture, a stuffed bunny or even a real one (if you are adventurous) to teach some of the characteristics of Jesus that we should all try to have. By adding a Bible verse to each quality, you will create a true Easter Bunny.
Real Easter bunnies:
   are white as snow because Jesus takes all sin away (Isaiah 1:18b).
   are gentle, kind-hearted and forgiving (Ephesians 4:32).
   have big ears that are quick to listen (James 1:19).
   have big eyes to look carefully and choose what is good (1 Thessalonians 5:21).
   have no voice for complaining or arguing (Philippians 2:13).
   are quiet in prayer, but hop with thanksgiving and rejoicing (Philippians 4:4-6).
   have big feet to go tell others about Jesus so they can be like Easter bunnies, too (Matthew 28: 19-20).
eat what is healthy by filling up on God's word every day (Psalm 119:11).

White Carnations and red dye….Carnation is white like the pure spotless lamb of God for us….as the flower sits in the red dyed water it will soon take on all of our “red sin” just as Christ did that for us on the cross.

Rock Hunt Ezekiel 36:26 26"Moreover, I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; and I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. 27"I will put My Spirit within you and cause you to walk in My statutes, and you will be careful to observe My ordinances. 28"You will live in the land that I gave to your forefathers; so you will be My people, and I will be your God.…

Hunt for rocks bring them back, write sins on them, pray and ask for forgiveness then throw the rocks as far away as you can…18Who is a God like You, who pardons iniquity And passes over the rebellious act of the remnant of His possession? He does not retain His anger forever, Because He delights in unchanging love. 19He will again have compassion on us; He will tread our iniquities under foot. Yes, You will cast all their sins Into the depths of the sea. 20You will give truth to Jacob And unchanging love to Abraham, Which You swore to our forefathers From the days of old.


Resurrection rolls

Wednesday, March 18, 2015

God holds those you care about.

God holds the people you care about.  God cares about them more. March 18,2015


Decided to load a picnic basket and head to the park on this beautiful day.  We didn’t have plans to meet anyone.  But turns out I had a chance to talk to an old friend. 

Two weeks ago I participated in a contest to help my friend and old neighbor, Alissa Bray, promote her photography business.  I ended up winning …2 times….this weekend we will be having a FREE photo shoot from her.   Two days ago she was asking on FB if anyone knew of a 10 day old baby model that she could practice a new pose on.  …I was trying to connect her to my cousin Katie….THEN TODAY I “randomly” see her at the park! 

Before we moved from Huntington Forest we saw each other all the time!  Mason was 3 and Micah had just been born when we met!   She isn’t a believer and for the first time I had a really close relationship with an unbeliever.  She was a close friend.  I did a lot of investing in her, not because I felt sorry for her or felt like she was a charity case, I genuinely enjoyed her friendship.  I was trying to live Ephesians 5:16, “making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil.”  I knew God had ordained our meeting.  I knew God put her in my life.   She even still says that because of my encouragement she started her own photography business. She moved before we did and I often think about that friendship and wonder if she has anyone else in her life that is pointing her to Christ.

Today I saw her at the park with a gal that I met on the womens retreat at church (she was actually my small group leader) My heart smiled as we sat there because I knew, I realized that God hadn’t forgotten Alissa.  God is still pursuing her.  There will be times that she comes back into my life and I “happen” to win a contest or our boys play on a team together or we cross paths at the park…But my job along my journey is to be who HE has created me to be.  I cannot worry.  I cannot fix everyone.  I cannot lead everyone to Christ.  I CAN be His hands.  I can be His feet. I can be an encouragement.  HE will take care of the rest. 

1 Corinthians 3:7 “So neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but only God, who makes things grow.”

Lord, may I never miss an opportunity to plant or water your harvest. Matthew 9:37 “Then he said to his disciples; The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few.”





Saturday, March 14, 2015

It Takes A Village

It takes a village:  March 14, 2015

Today I went with Kathrine Jackson to Superior Play Systems, a cool indoor playground equipment sales room that offers free play as a way to advertise.  Before we went I put on Facebook that we would be attending incase others wanted to join in on our field trip Friday!  I always love to let others know what they are doing incase a mom is really just needing somewhere to go with her kids, a way to get out of the house and be refreshed by some time with other women.

Our group this time was Me and Micah(5) and Ethan(2) ;along with pregnant Kathrine Jackson and Madyson (2) joined by Leah Outten who came with Jaxon(4) Ashlyn(2) and Sadie (3 weeks); another girl that I know but cannot remember her name came with her daughter Ashlyn (2) and her son(4 weeks)  and also joining us was Jen Sain with Gavin (2) and Grayson(6 months).  This was our unspoken “group” even though all the women didn’t know each other we knew common friends and we all worked together to care for each other’s children.

I loved our time together today.  Not because we had any really deep conversations that could last more than a couple of minuets because they were stopped as we attended to not only our children but the other children that were with our group. 

1 Peter 1:22 Love one another deeply, from the heart.

We loved eachother deeply today.  Mothers of young children aren’t bothered by broken conversations. Mothers of young children aren’t annoyed that their fellow young mother isn’t making eye contact when she speaks.  We all understand that we love and yearn for the adult conversation the one that encourages us, lifts us up, reminds us that we have other mothers of young children who are in our same boat.  One eye on your children and one eye on your friend, pausing in mid sentence to discipline, push a swing, spot a climbing toddler….attempting to pick up your conversation, all the while just thankful you have somewhere to be other than on the floor of your livingroom.  Don’t get me wrong I love love love playing one on one with my children! I love that I have the opportunity to be home with them but I am also aware that God created us to be in relationship.  With Him and with others. 

I watched the mothers take turns nursing their young and the other mothers without being asked assumed the roll of keeping one eye on their fellow mothers child while they attend to the needs of another.  Loved watching how we all took turns holding babies, catching toddlers at the bottom of a slide, offered our spotting hand and proud words of encouragement as they climbed ladders in their sock feet.  The mothers instructed their children and the children of our group to share and take turns and praised the children’s kindness and noticed how they were practicing patience.  Today was a lot of work.  The mothers didn’t sip coffee, look at their phones or read a book.  We were side by side this morning, living life together.  We learn from each others successes and failures.

Titus 2: 3-5 Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to  much wine they are to teach what is good and so train the young women to love their husbands and children to be self controlled, pure, working at home, kind and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reveled.

THIS is why I love being with others.  I love being reminded that the stages of parenting different ages of children are all hard they just have their different challenges but in the end everyone is in it together.  I love the broken conversations I have with the mothers God places in my life in that moment. I love the opportunity for my children to interact with others that aren’t their siblings.  I loved watching Micah have an opportunity to practice his gift of compassion by trying to include 2 year old Ethan and Gavin. Micah helped them problem solve, Micah helped them take turns, showed them how to work together. He modeled peace for them.   I could see his eyes smile as he would hold their hands and talk to them and help to lead them.  Micah grew in his God given gift today.  And, so did I.  I realize that its not easy for others to invite or plan something.  I love doing this.  At times I’m not a respecter of persons, I don’t only choose those I’m really close to I really see it as a ministry and trust that who ever comes is who God had planned to come that day. 

Ephesians 2:10 For we are his workmanship. Created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them. 

I wish everyone would do this more.  I wish mothers of young children would understand how much they NEED to be in relationship with other mothers.  For themselves but also for others… 

Psalm 115:14-15 May the LORD make you increase, both you and your children. May you be blessed by the LORD, the Maker of heaven and earth.

I could go on but my Little Ethan needs me J


Friday, March 13, 2015

Routine for Mom while we are out of town

Daily Routines

Wake Mason at 6:45

Breakfast

Hair and Teeth

Lunch packed

Mason leaves for school 7:20

Micah and Ethan eat breakfast and play with each other

Around 8-8:15 clean up and come to bar for “Preschool” (or if they are playing fine together then leave them alone to play)  Before Screen time we do some preschool.  *** YOU DON’T HAVE TO DO PRESCHOOL!!!

While preschool is going on I clean the kitchen- load dishes, unload, sweep, wipe counters, start laundry

            Some Options for preschool:
            3 pages from a workbook
            salt pan practice writing letters, numbers or drawing shapes
            file folder games
            write name in journal, draw pics in journal (they each have one in the kitchen drawer)
            review days of the week, months of the year, counting, rhyming words
            paint
            play dough
            puzzels
           
Once preschool is completed they brush their teeth and get dressed for the day before screen time. Micah usually always asks to wait till after screen time, but if we don’t do it then I never remember to brush their teeth J —they can play the Wii, Micah and Ethan can watch the same show or separate shows (Micah likes wild kratts and aurther,  Dinosaur train- we have lots of things dvrd-Ethan mainly just likes paw patrol)--- Ethan may ask to play the ipad or your phone, we don’t let him…he cant do it unassisted and I use screens as a babysitter J

While they are watching a show I shower, get ready or do some chores.
Once their show is over they have a morning snack…one of these
            Yogurt and granola, cheese stick
            Fruit
            Crackers, pretzels, granola bar

After snack they play, we go somewhere, if its nice they have outside “recess” (Ethan loves to always go out Micah sometimes has to be forced- Micahs not big on transitions…hes a homebody.
            Playset, chalk-hopscotch, Helmets for bikes and scooters

They also just play with toys. We have a white game bucket Ethan and Micah can together play most of the games in there (E will need some assistance)

Some other ideas of “Things to Play” if they say they are board or if they are fighting and you need to switch up the scene-
            Trains
            Super Heros
            Costumes
            Play Mobile
            Legos
            Blocks
            Dinosaurs
            Instruments
            Flashlights in E’s Dark room (Glow board in Micah’s Room)
            Playdough
            Paint (ethan Loves to paint, Micah can be hit or miss)
            Matchbox Racecars
            Magnablock puzzels
            Pretend will all the stuffed animals in Ethans room
            Kitchen “Picnic or Resruant”

Lunch around 12
After Lunch we read some books
E down for nap at 1
            He usually cries
            (If his diaper is dry I put him on the potty and read one of the books on the shelf while he pees.)
            Asks for a sippy cup of water with ONE ice (one icecube) he takes a sip and I stand it up beside his pillow in his crib…if the sippy is leaking remove the stopper dry it out and reset the seal.
            Sometimes he wants to change into his PJs for nap- up to you
            We read one book- if it’s the song book we sing them just pick some
Once Ethan is down I usually do one more thing with Micah- Read some books, play a game, do some preschool or file folder games….then he has playtime (Quiet play alone time in the bounus room or his room, not a time that he should be playing something he needs my help with)

I use this time to have quiet time- read, pray, nap (I wish)
I then invite Micah to help me do some chores- Laundry, prep dinner, clean or he can continue to play alone…if he asks to play computer he can navigate PBSKIDS.COM –WildKratts and dinosaur train he likes.
**His user name is 123micah456 and his password is ilikepizza

As long as the front door is unlocked you don’t have to be on the porch waiting for Mason to get off the bus!  Hes off a couple of mins before 3.

He comes in they have an afternoon snack-                     
            Crackers, pretzles, chips, fruit, granola….depending on the night you can decide how much you want them to eat before dinner

Mason has an Orange Homework Folder the only part he needs help with are some of the spelling exercises.  You have to sign that he has completed his homework and are supposed to check his agenda and initial that you read any notes from school or reminders from school.  I also usually go ahead and take his icepack from his lunch box and put it back in the freezer for the next day.
           
After snack They usually play outside until 4:20- Basketball, football, bikes, scooters… IF ETHAN ISNT UP BY 4…wake him or he will have trouble sleeping at night.
            Afternoon Screen at 4:30 AFTER they have completed their daily chore responsibility. You look around and see what you may need some help with and they can do one of them. (You can probably count they are going to ask if they can have more screen time…up to you, I usually say no and they don’t pout or cry)

            Chore options- Fold and put away towels, match socks, unload dishwasher (they unload what they can, I do the rest) Empty trashcans- Ethan is great at this one) Vaccume a room, pick up toys, wipe bathroom counter, windex glass doors, dust, collect dirty clothes from laundry baskets and bring to laundry room….anything really they are used to doing one chore a day before afternoon screen time. 
**Mason has a responsibility of putting his clothes away- I fold them put them on hangers and put them on his bed- he puts them away- plus he likes to put them in a certain spot. J

Screen time Mason may play the ipad or a game on the computer – sometimes they are all three doing something different for screen time.  If mason asks to do go noodle or cool math that’s okay, we just don’t allow him to go to his room and use the ipad…gotta protect him.

While they have screen time I start cooking
After Screen time they play together, finish helping cook dinner, set the table, do some extra chores –they get paid for these extra(masons saving money for an ipod, Micah is saving for a lego set)
**OR go ahead and take a shower before dinner.  Ethan is fine to be in with Mason _ Mason likes the water hotter than Micah so Mason and Ethan go first then Mason gets out and Micah gets in; Ethan just stays in and plays the whole time…  or (micah and Ethan sometimes like to take a bath together)  *** I know sometimes it seems silly to shower before a practice night but we just have to sometimes….if you don’t think they need one they can skip but may need to remind them to change underwear.
Dinner- Ethan needs to sit in his booster (he may ask to sit on the bench- he wont eat he will just laugh and walk on the bench- if on the porch he sits in a chair)
They all have a responsibility to sit at the table and talk about our day until everyone is finished eating and then they are to help clean up after dinner.  Once the kitchen is all clean then we either leave for a practice or Awana or have “family time” 

They make up games with the dice, throw/ play catch in the bonus room,  they can all play uno, family Wii, hide and seek, flashlight shadow puppets on the curtain in the bonus room- may not be dark enough for that anymore) – if they didn’t shower before dinner then they can do that after—

** at 7:15 we break from whatever family thing we are doing and all boys go brush teeth, down in Mason and Micahs Bathroom-- say good night to Ethan and put him in the bed
            Diaper and PJs
he picks two books from his drawer, turns sound machine on and asks for water with one ice.--- be prepared for tears.

we play one thing before the others go to bed- a game or stories or something with Mason and then something with Micah –go to read stories by 740—unless its practice or awana night…they come in from those things brush teeth, bible and bed….Ethan is always with us so he ends up in bed pretty late most nights.

We sit on Micah’s bed read a bible story and pray.
Mason sleeps with his closet light on- lays his clothes out for the next day, and reads by himself before he goes to sleep.  

Catch some zzz before we do it again the next day! We wake Mason at 6:45am


Wednesday
Day Time Options: 
Story Time at 10 or 11 at the Baxter Library
Superior Play Systems has free play beginning at 10 you can pack a lunch and eat indoors
Wednesday Evening: Awana at Lake Shore Church starts at 6:45
Leave house at 6:30 to take boys to Awanas at lake shore church- they need their vest, bible and offering (coins from the back of big drawer in kitchen island)- Mason can check Micah in at a Awanas- Ethan and Crhis usually stay home and play while I take them to Awana, sometimes when I get back we give Ethan a bowl of dry cheerios and raisins and a water cup and a blanket and we take him on a stroller ride and just put him in the bed a little later (depending on if he napped)
Kristel and Jason can bring the Older boys home- NO bible stories on Wednesday because its so late-just brush teeth, pee and sleep.

Thursday Daytime : Bible Study- Pack a lunch for both boys
Thursday Evening Mason has football practice at 6:30 at Trail Head Park right past the Lakeshore Neighborhood… Cleats for Mason and a Waterbottle, chairs in the back or a blue mat for you to sit on.

If dad is available and you all want to go Micah and Ethan can play at the park with one of you while the other walks down the trail to football practice with Mason---or Micah can have a choice to go while the other one of you stays with Ethan to put him in the bed or Micah may wanna stay home and play…up to you…Ethan loves to go…or its also okay for you to tell the boys you are all going to go and watch Mason play they can bring some dinos or just find some sticks to play with during the practice, vs the younger two playing on the playground…up to you!

Friday Day time Options:  Free Play at Superior Play Systems 10-1
Evening Open

Saturday Micah has a soccer game at 11:35 and Mason has a football game at 11:15 – Coordinate with Phillip and Linda if you and dad cant/ don’t want to split up/

Sunday Church

Monday
Morning Options- Mr Nigel Music at Sam Ash 10:00am
Evening- Micah has soccer practice at Lookout Park (same place he has his games) at 6:30

Tuesday – Open
Wednesday- Superior Play Systems or Library Story Time 10-11 Wednesday Evening they have  Awana 6:45-8:15
Thursday Football Practice
Friday Open

Breakfast Menu--- they don’t get to choose what they eat…too many fights, this also helps me make sure I have enough of the same thing for everyone…I’ll have all this stocked for you.

Breakfast-

-Cereal – Micah: Honey Crunch Oats, Mason: Cheerios, Ethan: Shredded Wheat or honey crunch oats.
-Instant Oatmeal- we use the small plastic babyfood bowls and just put enough water to wet it and cook for 30 secs
-Frozen Waffels  Micah sometimes only wants butter, no syrup, he kinda eats it like toast, I’d ask before you cut it up and put syrup on it.
-Bagels and Cream Cheese- Micah doesn’t like his toasted, Mason and Ethan like theirs toasted
-Pancakes and Bacon
-Eggs- Ethan is the only one who will eat scrambled eggs- I make them with salt and pepper.


            Dinner Options- We give them small portions and ask them to eat their veggies before having seconds.

Ziti Pasta with bag frozen meatballs in jar marinara sauce.  Shake Parmesan Cheese…Micah may or may not want the sauce, same with Ethan.   Serve with Salad and ranch dressing. (fruit if you want)

Tacos- Taco Ground beef already flavored and frozen in the freezer.  Serve with Corn, Chips and raw Zucchini Sticks with ranch.  Ethan and Mason like sour cream, beef and shredded cheese.  Micah likes a cold flour shell and shredded cheese rolled up- don’t heat it.

Mac N Cheese and frozen Chicken Nuggets and steamed broccoli or sweet peppers and ranch.

Grilled Chicken, Rice and raw veggies/ salad

Kids eat Free for Dinner-

Monday $.99 at Red Bowl, - We get Ethan Chicken Nuggets and Fries, Mason likes the cheese sticks and Chicken fingers (he also likes sesame chicken) Micah likes chicken nuggets and fries

Tuesday McAlisters Deli- Just ask what they want…pita pizza, mac n cheese, grilled chees ham and cheese
Beef O bradys- ask what they want from the menu
Moes – Micah and Ethan a Quesidillia

Wednesday- Captian Steves all day kids eat free

Saturday- $.99 Redbowl

Sunday-

Town Tavern and Beef O Bradys